Posts by Ryan Briscoe

Everyone has some standard by which they measure all things. This is inescapable so the question is not whether one has such a standard, but rather which is the standard. The foundation of modern psychology was laid in the 1960s with people like Carl Rogers, Fritz Perls, and B.F. Skinner – all of whom are…

The Highest Form of Thought: Gratitude G.K. Chesterton once said that “the highest form of thought is gratitude.” For the longest time, I wondered what he meant by that. Then, all of a sudden, it clicked. Too often in life, we find ourselves discontent, stressed, or dissatisfied. When this happens, our natural impulse is to…

“I’d like to be more confident.” “I think he’s a really great kid, but he lacks confidence. I want him to see how amazing he really is.” These are common things I hear from people who come for counseling. And, to be honest, I have thought similar things myself. Most people could use a little…

Due Date vs. Done By Date: Taking Control of Your Goals Deadlines shape our lives. From work projects to personal obligations, we constantly face due dates—deadlines imposed by others that dictate when something must be completed. While due dates are unavoidable, they don’t have to control our productivity or ambitions. Instead, we should focus on…

Anxiety is a normal part of life, but managing it effectively can make all the difference in how it impacts our daily experience. There’s no one-size-fits-all solution, but breaking anxiety management into four main approaches provides a practical framework for navigating it. 1. Avoidance: Picking Your Battles Sometimes, the simplest way to deal with anxiety…

The WHO, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, WHY, and HOW of Getting Things Done Do you ever find yourself staring at a long to-do list, unsure where to start or why some tasks seem impossible to tackle? Let me introduce you to a simple but powerful system that breaks down your tasks into six essential questions: WHO, WHAT,…

Life is a series of choices. Each one, big or small, shapes who you become. For young men striving to live with purpose and honor, cutting out bad habits isn’t just about removing sin—it’s about creating space for something better. Let’s talk about why eliminating harmful habits is crucial and what practical steps you can…

In Christian counseling, a core focus is helping people uncover and turn from their idols. When we hear the word “idol,” it often brings to mind images of statues made of wood or stone that people worship for what they believe the idol can offer them. However, the idols most people struggle with today aren’t…

One of the distinguishing traits of manipulative personalities is their use of ambiguity. This intentional vagueness allows them to shift their stance as it suits them, avoiding accountability and responsibility while appearing adaptable. Through this tactic, they can shape the conversation or the perception of truth to suit their needs, changing positions depending on the…

Loss and pain are universal experiences, yet healing from them often feels like a deeply personal and lonely journey. When faced with profound grief or another painful event, many of us wonder what it takes to truly heal. In my experience, four things are essential in this process: time, truth, new experiences, and meaning. Let’s…