Talking to kids about problems

This is an imagined scenario of what I might say to a young client, say, around 6 or 7 years old, but also similar to what a parent might say to their own child of similar age who may be struggling with some problem. “Kids come...

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Spurgeon on Parenting

"I heard of a man who said that he did not like to prejudice his boy, so he would not say anything to him about Religion. The devil, however, was quite willing to prejudice the lad, so very early in life he learned to swear,...

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Parenting Traps and How to Avoid Them

A wise saying has it that “Of making many books there is no end,” and this can definitely be applied to parenting books. With all the thousands of parenting books out there, it’s a good rule of thumb to pay attention to what seems common...

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On the Importance of Listening

As a therapist, it is interesting to hear from clients why they stopped seeing their previous therapist. For one, it's more than likely what previous clients have said of me. Rarely will people give you brutally honest feedback; oftentimes you must get it by proxy. ...

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Religiously sensitive counselors

Albert Ellis, famous psychologist and atheist, once had this to say about the Bible: "I think that I can safely say that the Judeo-Christian Bible is a self-help book that has probably enabled more people to make more extensive and intensive personality and behavioral changes...

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Counseling for Men

What are Men's Issues? What do I mean by Men’s Issues? Are there issues that only men struggle with? In one sense, no. We all struggle at times with anxiety, depression, grief, loss and other trials under the sun. There are not male emotions and female...

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Am I a victim of domestic violence?

For women (and sometimes men) stuck in domestic violence relationships, life feels like being a prisoner of war. The home is a prison and it feels like there is no way out. Worse, because of the nature of the abuse, many women struggle to even...

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